It was four years ago, to this day, that I joined JguyUSguy.

I am deeply grateful for the moral support JguyUSguy provided me during some of the loneliest, saddest days in my life.

Unfortunately, it seems that I have far overstayed my welcome.

My heart remains forever grateful to my many friends and supporters on the site.

The time has come for another generation, another agenda, another group of members to take over.

I wish them and especially my two personal friends, Jguy and USguy, the founders of our site, all the very best.

Adieu et merci!

KF

I think it would be rash to decide to leave Jguy based on one argument... are you sure this is what you want?

Mais pourquoi, mon ami âgées?!!!


Si elle doit être ... adieu! Beaucoup d'amour pour vous et les vôtres.

--filsde...

KF,

What are you talking about?? Come back right this instant and stop being such a queen !

You put the 'KF' in 'JguyUSguy'. What would we be without you?

I haven't seen what has taken place - but we have had our spats in the past KF. I found a break was great and helped me put things into perspective......instead of adieu, why not auf wiedersehen

Merde! Très décevant.

Thank you all very much.

I will (try to )follow Jerome's advice for a while, and make this just an "au revoir".

I seem to have placed all my mental support resources into one basket, JguyUSguy, which is not good for either of us.

The trouble is that JguyUSguy is so interesting. Where else can we talk about Obama, gay movies, music, sex and so much more with such depth, humor and civility?

By the way, I would be happy to give free French online lessons to Sonofgrecodan.

"Mon ami âgées" sounds like "You decrepit old bag and friend of mine"!

But maybe that is what he really meant, rather than "mon vieil ami"...



KF

Hmm... Il parle le français, ou qu'il ne parle pas français? Qui est-ce?

Au revoir, mon ami.

--filsde...

Okay, now that KF's not here we can talk about him without him knowing.

Did you all know that tomorrow's his birthday? It is!

How about we surprise him with a big birthday thread in which we all type things he wants to hear? For example, osakarob can write "You know what, KF? You've been right all along. There is no gay identity in Japan. Only men who perform sexual acts with men. What was I thinking? You're way ahead. Please excuse us for being at lower stages in queer development."

Well, maybe I won't go THAT far, Taddy.

But I will say "Happy Birthday, KF".

Why stop contributing to the site?
Over a difference of opinion with me?!
That is far too dramatic of an overreaction.

We all value your posts. The hallmark of all good organizations is that they have passionate and consistent people nurturing them along on a daily basis.

Please continue to post and share your thoughts.

Thank you, Rob.

I am definitely going to look into every single link you posted to try to broaden my horizons and reduce my single-minded dependence on JguyUSguy for moral support as a closeted gay.

I needed to be shaken, not stirred, and you did that for me.



KF

Dear Friend,

I don't know you until tonight,when I come a cross of your message. Very sad to see leaving and I am sure you have all the good reasons for doing so. All the best on your journey.Joel

Happy Birthday KF.

It's just a shame you aren't around anymore to read and/or reply to this ：ｐ

quote:

Originally posted by casat:
Happy Birthday KF. It's just a shame you aren't around anymore to read and/or reply to this ：ｐ

Just lurking... and very grateful to you... and to Joel!

KF

Happy birthday, buddy!

How can we miss you if you never go away?

Thanks KF... but like Taddy says, you might need to look up what a "lurker" is ：ｐ

Oh, give the guy a break. Everyone (well, several of us) asked him NOT to go away, so don't blame him if his lurking is not totally silent.

I'm out now...



Thanks Taddy, and you too Paul!

KF

Does this mean we won't have a Shinjuku Gyoen Meet-up part 2 just like last year?

I think the differences in opinions only proves that JguyUSguy is a site where everyone have the freedom to voice out what's on their minds. Though I really don't have any clue of what's happening in the site (soo busy now with studies that reading each posts will actually eat all of my time), I feel the sadness lurking around.

To KF, belated happy birthday! I know it is late but I wish you a great year ahead. I'm still looking forward to meeting you.

Gees, KF - what about our dinner on Thursday??? You're not canceling out on that, are you??

Cheers, and happy birthday.

MM

Does anyone know why KF has temporarily exiled himself? Only to join some of the groups osakarob recommended?

I am sure KF that when you have explored other sites you will come back, jguyusguy is so special.

It seems that KF has left us for the time being. If any of you were wondering how to get in touch with him during his sabbatical, here's the way:
http://tinyurl.com/yts3pp
(Send a private message to him.)