Regarding the recent change to the chat room format, which provides two categories, "open" chat and "private" chat. Let me suggest that you simply reinstate the disclaimer that you once used to the effect that, "most guys are in Private Chats, if you want to chat with someone click on their name." When I looked tonight I found 0 (zero) in open and 18 in "looking for private. I rather liked the occasional cut and thrust of the open room. Obviously I had the choice of "going private" if I wanted to do so.

Just a comment,

Tommy-03

You may be right.

Let's just test this out for a week, okay? I can tell you privately why we thought to try a separate space for "seeking private chat."