The decision to restrict the Userplane"Audio/Video"Chat room to insider and premium members only is a welcome move for me, and I hope for others as well. Not only will it revive the interest of the members to take a closer look again at the Groupee"Members Chat" room, it will also pave the way for old friends to have a leisurely talk with one another instead of oggling someone groping himself infront of the camera! Who would want that! I know I have said it before that using the audio/video chat is like going to the candy store with all the goodies and trimmings presented right at your sight, initial amazement and interest wanes as soon as you have realized what you are aiming for. To meet a sane person (not a saint) and spend quality time as much as possible. Kudos to the team.

......there was a time when I use to receive e-mail from the group inviting me to visit the chatroom since they want to quantify its capacity. Most often since I am also quite rebellious in nature and I dont usually conform to the regular norm, I disregard the mail and decided to visit the group on times that it is convenient for me to do so(the guerilla visit-Icalled it). Then I abstain from visiting the group for quite a while. One day I receive a note informing me of my long absence and should I decide on the matters of unsubscribing to the group. My immediate reaction was to feel a sense of loss and the need to sustain my one connection to a place where I consider my self at home. So I rekindle my connection to the group and started visiting. During my long hiatus, I found out quite a number of things.....things I've missed...things I cant do without.....things I would be forever grateful that I have them......

I agree with Arnelrivas, this is a better arrangement. Makes more sense. And it appears not to have cut use of the video room.

tb

....could we arrange a meeting at the chatroom at a time convenient for you? I am interested in talking to you! By the way Hi!

Tommy If you by any chance would happen to pass by this post, I was present last night on the chatboard at the precise time I mentioned on my earlier post..you were not there and since I was the only one there I left after 10 minutes...I dont mind the wait. I decided to come back an hour later since I have some free time to kill, my spirits were up when I know your presence. It went tumbling down when my greeting was not even merited by even a hi!Ho! from you! Was that you being obnoxious or you are just giving me the cold shoulder from something I did a while back. Then to my amazement that orange buzz from your name means you are a moderator. Then you left in a huff! I dont want to put a conclusion or even a period to all of that. I still would want to talk if you have the time. I'll come back tomorrow night. Thanks.

.........thank you..........

Ah...excuse me...but when I say "kudos" it is a term in correlation for a commendation for a job well done. I am still in quandary as to why you sent me the earlier note. Any way if it is to encourage me to become a premium member..I have been taking it into consideration for quite a long time already. In fact I think I have sent a note a month ago when I started visiting again asking about other options open since I am sharing my credit card with my sister and she would surely ask me about it had the bill arrived with the inclusion of the bill other than utilities and groceries. Much more a bill with a foreign address. I am sorry for the misunderstanding.

No, arnel, the note was a quote from email we sent someone else. I wanted to share our response and couldn't think where to post it. Just posted it here and caused confusion.

No need for you to get Premium. You're already an Insider thanks to your active participation.

I know the meaning of "kudos" and really meant that I'm unsure whether we deserve such praise.

Yeah, lot's of miscommunication. I'm going to keep this short so as to avoid further chances for confusion.

Ah,,,I am back....I was on the chat and left on the huff since I parked the car on the low side of our street....it is raining and this sudden downpour always results into flood si I have to reparked the car. Any way, have I been steping on something out of bounds or something...if so remind me please...because as I have said from the beginning and I reiterated gain...here is the place I always felt at home and at ease and you know when you are at home you are bound do something inappropriate sometimes....so please excuse me for any wrong doing. Now regarding the matter of the note..well all the while I thought I would receive a reply but it didnot materialize.....thanks any way....

Oh by the way before I go back to the chat board....what is being an "insider meant" do I have to look it all up on the thread? Thanks.

Hello...All the while I thought this confusion would led me to cut back on my participation in the forum post. If so would you give an ample time to print all the others post I have already put on since I am in a habit of re-reading and re-reading it once in a while just for a laugh (reading is a very nice form of relaxation and it is stress releiving too.) thank you very much!

Hi Arnel,

You can read about Insider status here:
http://jguyusguy.org/explore/premiuminsider.html

Cheers

The other night, on the chatboard somebody told me "thank you, there is God after all". I would like to quote him on that. In my case , thank God,there is JguyUSguy after all. Now I would be more blessed if I would be able to meet him again. Please.....